So last week was a "Hate Charoo Fest".
It might have been a "Throw Stones at Charoo Fest" but please dont blame me if i missed the exact name of the event while braving through it.
My manager, whose mind i don't know very well, has made my position somewhat like the security friskers you meet at the entrance to a Mall or airport. And my peers are; well, the people i am supposed to check for bombs. The idea is that i am supposed to put a check on non-urgent spending and increase efficiency.
Only my peers are none too happy about being frisked (please dont laugh at my metaphor)
Last week we all met to iron out the differences and to work out who will do what. You know what happened? We all fought. They were all at one side of the table and i was at the other side. Only one of the colleagues, was defending me apart from my manager.
You would think i would be at least thankful about my manager supporting me, but i was not; because i think it just fueled their antagonism. I think if everybody had publicly condemned me then, they would have felt avenged; now i think they will only resolve to make my life tough; tougher than it is today.
Is it OK to be hated? I guess yes, it is OK to be hated.
It might have been a "Throw Stones at Charoo Fest" but please dont blame me if i missed the exact name of the event while braving through it.
My manager, whose mind i don't know very well, has made my position somewhat like the security friskers you meet at the entrance to a Mall or airport. And my peers are; well, the people i am supposed to check for bombs. The idea is that i am supposed to put a check on non-urgent spending and increase efficiency.
Only my peers are none too happy about being frisked (please dont laugh at my metaphor)
Last week we all met to iron out the differences and to work out who will do what. You know what happened? We all fought. They were all at one side of the table and i was at the other side. Only one of the colleagues, was defending me apart from my manager.
You would think i would be at least thankful about my manager supporting me, but i was not; because i think it just fueled their antagonism. I think if everybody had publicly condemned me then, they would have felt avenged; now i think they will only resolve to make my life tough; tougher than it is today.
Is it OK to be hated? I guess yes, it is OK to be hated.
Different people display hate differently, some get angry at you, some will make sure you never enjoy doing what you do with them, some will just ignore you and some still will not be able to do anything while they hate you.
But, it hurts everytime you realize someone hates you.
Me.
Hates me.
Me.
Hates me.
Or maybe hate is too strong a word....but dislike wont do.
Just try to have some fun while frisking them. So to speak.
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