What Women Want

The female pysche has been the topic of much discussion and gossip. There are people actually making money out of their "skill" to read a female mind.

To summarize all these myriad websites offering help to men, the general consensus seems to be that women do what they do, because they relate everything to their basic need of : Safe and Secure future. Once this parameter is met, they do a further selection based on who is more "fun" to be with; you know there is Safe boring and then there is the Safe adventurous.. so they tend to lean towards the non boring :-| (Surprise, surprise!)

I guess if more than one guy is left by then, women would sort based on other characteristics important for them.

How amazingly logical!! 

I was reading a short story today "Femme Fatale". The story is very short, but the writer goes to great lengths describing the place, the cafe the protagonist is in, the crowd, the smell, the sounds etc etc. What happens is that the girl is with the guy, who is head over heels in love with her. She is not so much moved by him. He finds her in a passionate embrace with another girl and commits a suicide.

Another short story "CockCrow" was about a Baron trying to woo a married woman who publicly treats her husband with disdain. This Baron guy is relentlessly pursuing her and she manages to always be just on the verge of letting him take her. Finally after seeing him hunt down and kill a wild boar with his bare hands, she calls him at night to her room where he falls asleep while waiting for her to emerge from her vanity. He wakes up to find her looking at him with the same disdain she shows her husband.

Moral of the story, girls do what makes them happy. Every girl has a different perception of what makes her happy. If i am financially secure, then security might not be on my list. 

You cannot box down female pysche in a book. You cannot teach a man how to always "interpret" every girl correctly. 

We are the more evolved gender. We are the thinkers & feelers and you are the doers. The only way you can understand us, is to go through the process, the emotional turmoil, what we call sticking through the thick and thin of it; and then, finally, you will somewhat understand ONE of us.